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PostPosted: 2008-10-10 22:53 
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剛和她到IFC食dinner,她放工已很疲倦,但仍向我講了幾個無了IQ題,但我仍覺得她比以前對我泠淡,真係好考功夫?????要維持一段戀情的新鮮度是很難的.請問日子久了,如何再令女人有驚喜呢?????


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U r aircrew, where ever u r at outport, try buying something for her (don't hv to be expensive) at least let her know u r thinking of her where ever u go (an example only).
h20, to tell u the truth, none of a relationship can maintain its 新鮮度, especially if both r staying together for a long period of time. For me, my partner n i r together for 15 yrs. Offcuz, that 新鮮度 is not there but at least, we trust each other, give each other supports, share the burden,hv a shoulder to lean on when we hv any problem n most impt, we still love each other like b4. (Every couples hv their ups n downs, as long as u guys bother to settle the problem n find a solutions.


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PostPosted: 2008-10-11 13:48 
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h2o wrote:
她心地好又靚,追求者條件比我好,我信她,只是自卑.如何不吃糙呢?

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既然自卑....不要一起啦
唔係只會一世自卑

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PostPosted: 2008-10-11 21:41 
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Every long flg I came back,I bought her something.She likes cloths.It just that since we have so many arguement from last month,I did not have the mood to choose the cloth when I was in outport.That time I was wondering if she was with her male friends.

This few days we are getting better but not as good as before. Sure I will buy her something nice on my next flight.

The reason why I buy her something nice everytime I fly,coz I want her to know I am thinking of her no matter where I am going.

I will not give up this relationship until she hates me and do not want to see me again.Even I am 自卑, I still do my best. If she can finally find someone better than me, the fault is not on me. Its her.

BEsides, I do not want to look for another 豬排 who is not better than her. She is the best.I will fight until she left me.


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come on! why other girls except your girlfriend is 豬排? we are here to share with u and support you. pls dun be defensive to others.

it is very unfair, selfish and navie behavior lor!


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Love is blind n beauty lies on the eyes of the beholder. 小肥, don't get offended by his words. Most man thinks their partner is the best lah.


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相信Pokey姐姐對我的訓話鬧得最岩,until now.She really tells me the solution step by step.也是很成熟的去面對一段關係,no wonder she can keep a long term relationship with her partner.

我只是長話短說,不是全世界都是豬排,只是不想easily find another girl條件比她差的人開始,更何況情人眼出西施,我也從未被李嘉欣關gigi吸引,我只愛王菲,她不屬於好靚,而且好多男人敬而遠之,難道我唔like李嘉欣,她便是豬排嗎?pls forgive me to have bad taste.I like Faye Wong.

我的話激得你甘旦起,你相信唔似李嘉欣,都係林嘉欣類型,見怪見怪.

BTW,我女友比以前少call我,我ゼ無心机call她,費事她說我check住晒,有時想唔知等Dセ,但又放不低,我是一個很專一的人,只是好好利用單獨的時間讀多幾本實用書打發時間,希望有機會搵到part time搵多d錢.

我係誠心想同這個女友有一日開花結果,如果任何人並非誠意幫我kool boo,請高抬貴手,我自認是愛情蠢蛋,但理想好簡單,只是"她"有一日戴上我送給她的結婚介子


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To h2o:

首先, 請不要誤會, 我跟你不相識, 不會因你的說話而無端生氣. 只是告訴你說話不要太mean, 要學習尊重別人.

我明白情人眼裡出西施. 所以在這個forum裡, 我們都是在支持你, 也沒有批評過你女朋友任何一句. 但請你明白"豬排"一詞, 對女孩子來說是非常貶意, 而且是很不尊重別人. 我只是在想, 一個連最基本尊重別人都不懂的人, 又怎會有好女孩喜歡呢?

我都是女孩子, 就算有個男仔愛到我死, 但唔信我, 或者連做人最基本的禮貌和修養都冇, 就算佢幾愛我都好, 最終都係會分手!雖然我唔識你, 但都開始體會點解你女朋友會angry. 一兩次或者可以原諒, 但重覆犯錯, 女仔係會失望的!

如果我講的說話你唔咁聽, 你可以不用理會. 但如果你想同你女朋友開花結果的話, 唔該做一個可以令佢相信同可以依賴的男人.

講完!


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再睇番呢個 topic,發覺樓主唔止自卑...仲好自我添! \shy\

你講過佢以前有5 mins break時,都會打嚟同你傾幾句。但係就因為你嘅無理 possessive character,佢先至對你泠淡或者同你鬧交。你唔反省之際,仲更加變本加厲...成日懷疑佢唔喺你身邊嘅時候...就係同啲男性朋友一齊。

你亦講過...以前佢同朋友出去,都會帶埋你一齊去。但點解依家唔再帶呢?女仔帶男友出去見她的朋友,有兩個理由....

1. 她想同男友見多幾面之際,亦可以同朋友一齊玩。朋友見到她的男友咁靚仔嘅...女性朋友就會envy,男性朋友(如果對她有意思嘅)就會back off。

2. 她想啲朋友幫眼睇下個男友得唔得。如果男友係出得大場面...同她的朋友玩得埋嘅,她就更加 proud of 男友嘞!

姨媽唔知你喺佢朋友心目中留下咩印象,就算開頭係好印象,但以你依家咁possessive嘅character....係女人都唔敢再帶你出嚟見人啦!點知你幾時會喺朋友面前落佢面架!?

你話你對女友幾好,但都只係好表面嘅好 (eg. buy things for her、call her、give her surprises)。你都冇真正去了解你女友係個咩人...就呷埋呢啲乾醋!喺你言語之中,感覺到你到呢一刻都唔知自己錯喺邊,只係一味懷疑女友同其他男仔有嘢。你一係就係好罷道嘅獅子座,一係就係佔有欲強嘅天蠍座...定嘞!?

你呢一句 "If she can finally find someone better than me, the fault is not on me. It's her"....就可以肯定你係個咩男人啦!就算你女友唔係為第二個男仔同你講分手,你都會一口咬定佢係識咗第二個啦!

你一日唔改你嘅possessive性格,就算佢繼續同你喺埋一齊、甚至同你結埋婚....咪遲早都會散!

你都會有女性朋友啩?但係你冇約你啲女性朋友出街,並唔代表你女友唔可以約佢啲男性朋友喎!佢大方地同你講佢同邊個男仔出去,好過因為怕你唔鍾意而靜靜雞約佢哋....好過啦!

好心你真真正正坐低同你女友傾下啦!同佢講你擔心啲乜、你唔鍾意佢做啲乜。你亦要嘗試接受佢啲男性朋友。最好嘅方法就係將佢啲男性朋友變為你啲好朋友,咁你咪可以同佢哋一齊玩囉!........唉....

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PostPosted: 2008-11-07 23:25 
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真的喜歡一個人,就是想他/她開心,為何喜歡他/她到教大家都這麼難過?喜歡他/她就相信他/她。。。不然就不要喜歡他/她。。。難過了人又苦了自己。。。relax... ^_^

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