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PostPosted: 2008-09-11 15:59 
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hello everybody, recently a guy seems have interest on me, but I'm really not sure if he also treat other girls the same........, I'm not the naive type girl, but hope you guys can give me some advice.

1. everytime when he date me, he must drive to pick me.
2. must pay by him, won't let me to treat him the meal.
3. will sms me or call me like hv typhoon or bad weather, will check if I need to fly or ask me to take care.
4. will ask me to join his gathering though i never join once. I don't want people think that because he's cockpit, so I approach him.

The main point is, he's cockpit, I'm crew. People always say that, don't be too naive! You're the "hk-base only", he can date lots of girls but you never know...... I also understand, but some of my friends also saying that, maybe he really have interest on me, because he still keep contact with me even I reject going out with him for so many times......

Personally, I think he's a nice guy but it seems really not secure to be his girl, if you were me, what'll you do? Am I thinking too much?

Thanks for the advice.


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Did you give him your phone number? Ask yourself why la!
Once you gave him your number, he knew he can date you la!


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He's definitely interested in dating you!

但係....唔該 please try to find out whether he has GF or not 囉!Sorry to say....姨媽唔信佢冇女朋友囉!

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Did you give him your phone number? Ask yourself why la!
Once you gave him your number, he knew he can date you la!


I only gave him my msn before, we only chit-chat on9 at the beginning, then he wanna date me for meal with him and ask for my cell phone for easier communication, it's natural that I gave my no. to him, right?


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He's definitely interested in dating you!

但係....唔該 please try to find out whether he has GF or not 囉!Sorry to say....姨媽唔信佢冇女朋友囉!


yup, I'm not that naive, I also won't trust he dun hv gf, but he claimed that he's single now lor......

and last time I have meal with him, he intro his buddy to me and kidding that they're actually gay and live together tim~

personally in my mind, cockpit are really 花心..... that's why make me don't have confident to him....


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PostPosted: 2008-09-13 14:26 
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... because he still keep contact with me even I reject going out with him for so many times......


I wud say he think u r not 'easy to get', that is why he still so determined to ask u out. No one knows what is in his mind or whether does he has a girlfriend. Like u hv said, "he might be treating other girls the same..." maybe once he gets what he wants, it will be a different story. If u hv the intention to continue, u need to gather more info abt him, e.g. fm other c'pit (privately) if not, don't waste each other time. Take care!


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我之前都有個cockpit對我既case....當我諗緊同唔同佢去飲野之際~~偉大既friendster話比我知佢有gf~~~hahahah~


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i think u can go out with him and know him more, so u have more chance to know if he has gf or not


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Well, if you like him, it's OK to go out with him, just a try law!
Doesn't mean that you have to do something with him ma!


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dizzycca wrote:
我之前都有個cockpit對我既case....當我諗緊同唔同佢去飲野之際~~偉大既friendster話比我知佢有gf~~~hahahah~


hahaa...., actually I also have his facebook, but I find that he only post group pics or tagged by the others lor~

thanks for you guys opinion ar!


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keep your cool la sweet heart...if you're having a good time with him, just enjoy and don't expect anything. that way u can at least avoid being disappointed and hurt :)


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咁你呢?interested or not ar?? 係真係interested佢個人?定係因為佢追緊你,你先話想試下咋?若然interested佢個人,而佢把口又唔係臭又唔係爛咪date下lor, 駛死咩, 又唔係叫你一date佢就嫁俾佢, take it easy la!!

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I agree what flya said. If you think you feel happy n enjoy the moment when you're around him, just keep in touch with this man. That's no big harm to date any men before you get married. But, please stay cool and observe. Life is too short. Go for it~


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PostPosted: 2008-09-16 17:18 
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thanks all of you, maybe I take it too serious lar


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Hi Everybody! This is my first time writing! My partner is a flight attendant. It's great you can have this place to come and chat and get advice.

I am a guy, so I will give you my point of view.

Of course any guy 'could' go and find some other girlfriends. But you can't be suspicious about all of them or you will just be so nervous and worried all the time. Some guys are nice. But also some aren't. You just have to spend some time with him, and really try to feel if he make you special, and if he treats you right.

Also, if you keep rejecting his dates..... if you reject a guy 3 times, he thinks you're really not interested.... so if you say, no, no, no... then it's bye bye!

And like another person writing said... enjoy the moment... and just stay cool. You'll know sooner or later if it is right.

Good luck!


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