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PostPosted: 2008-06-26 1:13 
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我gf因為好耐都搵唔到工, 之前收到FA 的offer, 為左盡快還清讀書的錢同財政獨立, 就做FA, 本身唔係好想做的, 所以plan住做兩年~

我地關係好好, 拍左幾個月了, 糖chi豆咁好

但係, 大家都覺得開始飛之後將會無乜機會見面... 大家近日都唔開心...
佢都話, 可能成個月先見得一兩次, 唔知點算... 但係又無可能唔做.......

我明白大時大節就無得係一齊喇, 所以唔知平日係咪可以多D見佢......
其實係咪多數每個月都會有差唔多十日留係香港唔使飛架???
定係有時成個月都飛長途架.........?

FA係咪好難同返普通工作的人拍拖架........?

另外, 我自己都有D憂慮...D crew 同乘客會approach我gf....
始終我都係一個文員仔... 短期就唔憂慮ge... 但半年一年後唔知會唔會發生......


有咩方法可以加強大家的信心, 唔好俾問題出現呢....?



好旁惶ar....... 多謝大家回應我... :(


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actually, we usually have 10+ days off in a month so it shouldn't be a problem for her to see you...

and you should trust your gf, if your relationship is as good as you say it is then she wouldn't even think of being with another person be it pax or other crew...

lastly, if you say your gf doesn't even like the job to begin with then she will probably quit soon... eventhough ppl admire our job and think it's easy, in reality it's quite tough... so maybe she won't last too long...

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我地關係好好, 拍左幾個月了, 糖chi豆咁好
拍得果幾個月,係人都會糖癡豆架啦!

但係, 大家都覺得開始飛之後將會無乜機會見面...
佢都話, 可能成個月先見得一兩次.......
梗係唔係啦!飛一班五日長途機,番嚟之後最少有三日假,咪可以見面囉!要見面...就算做嘅只係即日來回機,都可以見嘛!

我明白大時大節就無得係一齊喇, 所以唔知平日係咪可以多D見佢......
其實係咪多數每個月都會有差唔多十日留係香港唔使飛架???
定係有時成個月都飛長途架.........?
大時大節見唔見到...就睇彩數嘞!你哋想見面,只要佢喺香港...咪見得囉!飛啲咩機,係睇公司俾啲咩機佢,但係過咗 probation,佢可以同啲同事掉換機嘛!

FA係咪好難同返普通工作的人拍拖架........?
梗係唔係啦!好多女同事都係同外面啲人拍拖 結婚。最緊要係外面啲男人要明白做 FA 的 job nature。

另外, 我自己都有D憂慮...D crew 同乘客會approach我gf....
始終我都係一個文員仔... 短期就唔憂慮ge... 但半年一年後唔知會唔會發生......
咁又係喎!就算冇乘客 approach,都會有啲機不X食的男同事 approach架!但係就算係做 office...都會有人 approach 啦!你驚得幾多呢?如果你因為驚 而唔信佢、阻止佢同啲同事相處、 亦同佢為啲小事而鬧交,任何女仔...做緊邊一份工...都會喺唔開心的情況下俾任何男人乘機有位入囉!

如果佢都未做呢份工,你就覺得佢係信唔過嘅,基本上...個問題係出自你身上啦!因為你腦內已經覺得做空姐就一定有好多機會識其他男性。可以同你講...一個女人如果鍾意認識其他男性朋友,就算佢唔做呢份工,佢都有機會識到!呢個係性格問題,唔關份工的事囉!

男人對段感情冇信心 係一件好危險的事!女人鍾意個男人,唔係因為個男人做咩工,(佢同你拍拖嘅時候都知你係做咩工架啦!) 而係個男人對個女友好唔好、個女仔帶個男友出嚟會唔會失禮....。一個做份普通文員工的男人,都可以出到大場面架!如果你喺呢方面覺得自己冇問題,你就唔需要驚啦!

就算你對佢已經好好,到最後佢都俾另一個男人溝咗去,個問題都係佢!一個咁容易就俾人溝咗去嘅女仔,唔要都罷啦!只証明呢個女仔唔啱你,你哋冇緣份囉!


有咩方法可以加強大家的信心, 唔好俾問題出現呢....?
你哋倆個都有自己的性格,拍咗拖又唔係好耐,你應該未了解到佢係個咩人。溝通多啲啦、同佢講你心內的擔憂。但係講完就算啦!當佢開始做呢份工的時候,就要對佢有信心、對佢好啲。唔好諗住呢份工好易做,唔好諗住佢份工係遊山玩水、唔好諗住佢係冇壓力。多啲了解佢份工、聽佢對呢份工的投訴。

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傻佬,你驚得幾多呀,你要留得住佢個人,留得住佢個心先有用既!!
佢可以swap得後就會不自覺飛多左,但當然啦,如果佢重視你的話,佢會盡力swap到同你文員假差唔多既(當然,有陣時未必一定放到,可能大時大節都要返工)!! 所以我地爭取假期補水都好合理ja!!! ,其實女仔好少好博,加上你如果俾到一個 "飛少d,我養你"的目標佢,就ok晒架啦。
至於你話點樣博佢歡心,你勤力d,唔嫌遠送下佢機,臨別時係冇人見到既情況下錫佢一淡;最重要係接機,特別係long haul,如果你晨早接佢機,同佢食早餐,幫佢拖超笨重的suitcase回家,心又好乜都溶晒啦!!!
遇到佢開心既野,不彷替她開心一下。佢第一次去那些地方,幫佢做下資料搜集,print一兩張簡介過佢,雖然我好肯定佢唔會點用,但當其他同事話 "嘩! 你自已print架?"佢一定甜絲絲話 "唔係呀! 男朋友print架!" 然後接受同事羨慕既目光,始終,你是值得她用來炫耀的才對啊!!
當佢遇到唔開心既事,聆聽,唔好發言。佢發洩過之後就冇事架啦!!唔好表達自已意見,任何都唔好,因為外人永遠唔了解自已份工,講多錯多架ja....佢好唔開心既....緊緊摟住佢,同佢講...."無事啦,有我係度,以後唔開心既都要同我講知嘛?!"
佢去到outport可能好少send SMS過你,因為一個SMS差唔多四五蚊,但你就要經常send俾佢,事關你唔洗錢架ma....即使你放break 食飯,開完會,話佢知,短短四五句都好,等佢知道你做緊乜......最後不忘說 "艾粒U"暖暖她心房,一個女子在外地很寂寞的。
當然佢有些時候是DND時間,不要打擾她,如抄緊crew list,用緊電腦,拉著suitcase係街度行緊,上緊巴士,坐緊巴士,放工係巴士,都好想休息一下,不要死拉著她不放,說一句 :我知你累了,睡一會吧,回家打給我...." 佢會覺得你好了解佢。
佢回到家,幫佢整理好鞋襪行李,幫佢捏捏膊,鬆鬆骨,靜靜聽下佢今次發生左d咩事。
另外,不要以為做office比做空姐辛苦得多,因為做完一班機,酸痛,jetlag,全身又臭又髒兮兮,外人又是永遠不能了解的。很多同事都告訴我,跟男朋友吵架時,男友總是不自覺吐了一句 : 你地做空姐有幾辛苦呀?! 咪又係笑下派下餐咁.......去到果邊又玩又..... (千萬不要說!!)
最後假期時,多做家務,多煮飯,去海邊二人世界一下。不要再選擇旺角,銅鑼灣等地方。因為我們在香港,除了睡覺外,就不想去人多熱鬧地方,也盡量不要約其他朋友分享你們的二人時間,因為她在港,最想見到的,就是你!!
放長假時,跟她出機票去旅行,二人世界一下,是我們的福利啊。
最後,告訴你,空少機師們,像馬德鐘般靚仔的,我就真係未見,不過花弗的就大有人在,不過相關人士已經出晒名,如果你女友都中招,咁我諗佢都幾幼稚囉。另外,在outport一起食飯飲酒在Crew的圈子是平常到不得之了,只要不過火和記得返房訓就ok晒。不要介懷為甚麼她相機會出現跟不同男生合照,可以裝呷醋讓她知道你緊張她,但不要呷過份的醋,這回事在公司是很平常的,反正過多一陣子,就算迎面而過都記不起名字了。所以你別擔心太多啦........擔心你自已吧,你的信心已經動搖,不是嗎?


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傻佬,你驚得幾多呀,你要留得住佢個人,留得住佢個心先有用既!!
佢可以swap得後就會不自覺飛多左,但當然啦,如果佢重視你的話,佢會盡力swap到同你文員假差唔多既(當然,有陣時未必一定放到,可能大時大節都要返工)!! 所以我地爭取假期補水都好合理ja!!! ,其實女仔好少好博,加上你如果俾到一個 "飛少d,我養你"的目標佢,就ok晒架啦。
至於你話點樣博佢歡心,你勤力d,唔嫌遠送下佢機,臨別時係冇人見到既情況下錫佢一淡;最重要係接機,特別係long haul,如果你晨早接佢機,同佢食早餐,幫佢拖超笨重的suitcase回家,心又好乜都溶晒啦!!!
遇到佢開心既野,不彷替她開心一下。佢第一次去那些地方,幫佢做下資料搜集,print一兩張簡介過佢,雖然我好肯定佢唔會點用,但當其他同事話 "嘩! 你自已print架?"佢一定甜絲絲話 "唔係呀! 男朋友print架!" 然後接受同事羨慕既目光,始終,你是值得她用來炫耀的才對啊!!
當佢遇到唔開心既事,聆聽,唔好發言。佢發洩過之後就冇事架啦!!唔好表達自已意見,任何都唔好,因為外人永遠唔了解自已份工,講多錯多架ja....佢好唔開心既....緊緊摟住佢,同佢講...."無事啦,有我係度,以後唔開心既都要同我講知嘛?!"
佢去到outport可能好少send SMS過你,因為一個SMS差唔多四五蚊,但你就要經常send俾佢,事關你唔洗錢架ma....即使你放break 食飯,開完會,話佢知,短短四五句都好,等佢知道你做緊乜......最後不忘說 "艾粒U"暖暖她心房,一個女子在外地很寂寞的。
當然佢有些時候是DND時間,不要打擾她,如抄緊crew list,用緊電腦,拉著suitcase係街度行緊,上緊巴士,坐緊巴士,放工係巴士,都好想休息一下,不要死拉著她不放,說一句 :我知你累了,睡一會吧,回家打給我...." 佢會覺得你好了解佢。
佢回到家,幫佢整理好鞋襪行李,幫佢捏捏膊,鬆鬆骨,靜靜聽下佢今次發生左d咩事。
另外,不要以為做office比做空姐辛苦得多,因為做完一班機,酸痛,jetlag,全身又臭又髒兮兮,外人又是永遠不能了解的。很多同事都告訴我,跟男朋友吵架時,男友總是不自覺吐了一句 : 你地做空姐有幾辛苦呀?! 咪又係笑下派下餐咁.......去到果邊又玩又..... (千萬不要說!!)
最後假期時,多做家務,多煮飯,去海邊二人世界一下。不要再選擇旺角,銅鑼灣等地方。因為我們在香港,除了睡覺外,就不想去人多熱鬧地方,也盡量不要約其他朋友分享你們的二人時間,因為她在港,最想見到的,就是你!!
放長假時,跟她出機票去旅行,二人世界一下,是我們的福利啊。
最後,告訴你,空少機師們,像馬德鐘般靚仔的,我就真係未見,不過花弗的就大有人在,不過相關人士已經出晒名,如果你女友都中招,咁我諗佢都幾幼稚囉。另外,在outport一起食飯飲酒在Crew的圈子是平常到不得之了,只要不過火和記得返房訓就ok晒。不要介懷為甚麼她相機會出現跟不同男生合照,可以裝呷醋讓她知道你緊張她,但不要呷過份的醋,這回事在公司是很平常的,反正過多一陣子,就算迎面而過都記不起名字了。所以你別擔心太多啦........擔心你自已吧,你的信心已經動搖,不是嗎?


o! very very GOOD ar!!!! I also wanna have this kind of bf!!! and, if my bf can follow all these rules, i think i will not consider all of those male who feel interest in me (including pax)! haha, anyway, your tips are really GOOD!!!! \happy\


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但係可以跟到做個d 野既男人, 睇怕哩個世界都冇乜lo .....


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但係可以跟到做個d 野既男人, 睇怕哩個世界都冇乜lo .....


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傻佬,你驚得幾多呀,你要留得住佢個人,留得住佢個心先有用既!!
佢可以swap得後就會不自覺飛多左,但當然啦,如果佢重視你的話,佢會盡力swap到同你文員假差唔多既(當然,有陣時未必一定放到,可能大時大節都要返工)!! 所以我地爭取假期補水都好合理ja!!! ,其實女仔好少好博,加上你如果俾到一個 "飛少d,我養你"的目標佢,就ok晒架啦。
至於你話點樣博佢歡心,你勤力d,唔嫌遠送下佢機,臨別時係冇人見到既情況下錫佢一淡;最重要係接機,特別係long haul,如果你晨早接佢機,同佢食早餐,幫佢拖超笨重的suitcase回家,心又好乜都溶晒啦!!!
遇到佢開心既野,不彷替她開心一下。佢第一次去那些地方,幫佢做下資料搜集,print一兩張簡介過佢,雖然我好肯定佢唔會點用,但當其他同事話 "嘩! 你自已print架?"佢一定甜絲絲話 "唔係呀! 男朋友print架!" 然後接受同事羨慕既目光,始終,你是值得她用來炫耀的才對啊!!
當佢遇到唔開心既事,聆聽,唔好發言。佢發洩過之後就冇事架啦!!唔好表達自已意見,任何都唔好,因為外人永遠唔了解自已份工,講多錯多架ja....佢好唔開心既....緊緊摟住佢,同佢講...."無事啦,有我係度,以後唔開心既都要同我講知嘛?!"
佢去到outport可能好少send SMS過你,因為一個SMS差唔多四五蚊,但你就要經常send俾佢,事關你唔洗錢架ma....即使你放break 食飯,開完會,話佢知,短短四五句都好,等佢知道你做緊乜......最後不忘說 "艾粒U"暖暖她心房,一個女子在外地很寂寞的。
當然佢有些時候是DND時間,不要打擾她,如抄緊crew list,用緊電腦,拉著suitcase係街度行緊,上緊巴士,坐緊巴士,放工係巴士,都好想休息一下,不要死拉著她不放,說一句 :我知你累了,睡一會吧,回家打給我...." 佢會覺得你好了解佢。
佢回到家,幫佢整理好鞋襪行李,幫佢捏捏膊,鬆鬆骨,靜靜聽下佢今次發生左d咩事。
另外,不要以為做office比做空姐辛苦得多,因為做完一班機,酸痛,jetlag,全身又臭又髒兮兮,外人又是永遠不能了解的。很多同事都告訴我,跟男朋友吵架時,男友總是不自覺吐了一句 : 你地做空姐有幾辛苦呀?! 咪又係笑下派下餐咁.......去到果邊又玩又..... (千萬不要說!!)
最後假期時,多做家務,多煮飯,去海邊二人世界一下。不要再選擇旺角,銅鑼灣等地方。因為我們在香港,除了睡覺外,就不想去人多熱鬧地方,也盡量不要約其他朋友分享你們的二人時間,因為她在港,最想見到的,就是你!!
放長假時,跟她出機票去旅行,二人世界一下,是我們的福利啊。
最後,告訴你,空少機師們,像馬德鐘般靚仔的,我就真係未見,不過花弗的就大有人在,不過相關人士已經出晒名,如果你女友都中招,咁我諗佢都幾幼稚囉。另外,在outport一起食飯飲酒在Crew的圈子是平常到不得之了,只要不過火和記得返房訓就ok晒。不要介懷為甚麼她相機會出現跟不同男生合照,可以裝呷醋讓她知道你緊張她,但不要呷過份的醋,這回事在公司是很平常的,反正過多一陣子,就算迎面而過都記不起名字了。所以你別擔心太多啦........擔心你自已吧,你的信心已經動搖,不是嗎?



bom base~ good job!

I hope all the crew's bfs can underderstand this!


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siufai, BOM base really said it right. I fully agreed. I got to know my husband (outsider) when I join yuchee n we r married for 16 years now. Nothing is impossible when u hv faith with yr gf.
Give her all the trust. Not many people can understand our job nature. U will expect alot of complains fm her abt paxs n colleagues after a few months...not to panic, as it always happens, therefore be a good listener n share with her even if u cannot help her.


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big applause to BOM base's writing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
very very true!!!
i copied and paste to let my bf read la... hahahhahahaa

well done!!


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哇哇哇,BOM base,呢個連李安導演都拍唔出嘅超級體貼嘅男友,竟然俾你用一遍文章描述得淋漓盡致!我提議節錄出書“如何當一個crew的男友”。佩服!你系咪真系有個甘嘅男友,或者是你理想中的男友?如果有的話,非常恭喜!亦非常值得學習!

做crew真系一個好辛苦嘅行業,好體唔好食。所以各位crew男友,多D關心crew女友啦!

不過提到siufai 嘅concern. siufai 絕對唔系傻佬!大家點解唔講下D 現實嘅情況?無錯女仔對男友loyal,可以有好多理由,但系女仔唔可以唔loyal 架咩?一樣可以,甘就要 depends on 好多野,心理學好似話女仔比男仔更花心......

人到咗外地,又無男朋友向身邊,異國風情,非常容易有位入。無論有3G 4G 5G 嘅科技都好,都理唔到甘多架啦。環境可以改變好多野,你個女友飛咗去7大洲5大洋,又見過甘多皮膚嘅人之后,眼光會寬好多,心態都會變好多,唔知你同唔同意?做crew無疑系辛苦,但系好處系世界觀可以寬咗好多,人亦會成熟好多。所以話,你要維持女友對你loyal,不但只你要做到 BOM Base 發明嘅超級男友,更重要嘅,你系要增值自己!

其實siufai你嘅concern 當然可以理解,但系你嘅concern,似系一個女仔角度嘅concern,咩“唔知可以見幾多次.....”呢D 甘嘅婆媽野。

我系你,我會concern D 乜野?當然系,點解我要令女友做空姐去解決財困,點解我唔可以養到她。點解你會話自己系“一個文員仔”,你有無為你自己長進而擔心過??? 我相信,男人其中一個最有吸引力嘅地方,系長進,長進,再長進。你衣架唔 Lek , 唔緊要,但系你要肯定自己,你依架系一個文員仔,但系你要話俾自己同女友聽,你五年之后,你會有十個文員仔幫你做野,你要事業成功,你要有一番成就,女友唔使再做空姐,甘至系MAN 架嘛,細佬!

衣架呢個情況,一方面呢,要理解處境,多D 關心女友,另一方面,千奇唔好唔記得要發奮圖強!因為天外有天,一山還有一山高,比你好嘅人好多,當她開始飛,就會見到好多lek 人,好女仔有人追好平常,你要有心理準備,BE A Man, 當最壞嘅事情發生嘅時候,唔好問點解,唔好喊苦喊忽。因為世界好現實,鳥擇木而棲, take care of yourself and your own life.

唔好意思我導出咗甘多甘反ideal 嘅situation. However, 百年老店Lehman Brother 都會 go bankrupcy, 有咩唔可以發生,不過我地可以 take
precautions to prevent bad things from happening. 男女變心都系世界上每秒鐘都會發生嘅事。

以上只不過系最壞打算,你只需要有心理準備,事情未必會甘發生。但系如果siufai你唔發奮的話,莫講話半年一年後,三幾個月可能就會出狀況!

體開D,唔好甘緊張情情塌塌,你都唔系中學生啦,美人一向都愛英雄,你發奮成功,一定可以娶得美人歸!


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或者你可以試下坐你 gf operate 的機.. 了解下她的辛苦工作 (或者當你睇到後又另一感受)

順便你倆可以旅行一下... 增長感情

Good Luck to you!!


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