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 Post subject: 感情煩惱
PostPosted: 2008-05-05 1:03 
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如果你的令一半跟你說世界上 沒有婚姻是完美的,而他亦說他不能保證能給我一段完美的婚姻. 因言事已令到我不開心了大半天,誰能幫幫我?


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PostPosted: 2008-05-06 15:07 
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佢只係講事實啫!你係咪對佢太多要求先?

講呢幾句說話,第一個可能性係...佢覺得自己唔係一個完美的人,驚自己俾唔到一個完美幸福的家俾你啫!你係咪諗多咗呀?

第二個可能性係...佢係想暗示俾你知...佢知自己係一個唔可以結婚的人。拍拖就得。

你講得咁 general,點幫你解晝呢?

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咁你同你男朋友拍o左幾耐拖??

未結婚已經咁講,未免太令人失望同唔負責任....


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未結婚已經咁講,未免太令人失望同唔負責任....

又唔係咁講嘅!早啲通知你佢自己的諗法,好過到你諗住係時候結婚的時候...佢原來係唔想結婚嘅...咁咪仲失望 佢咪仲唔負責任?!

其實樓主都講得唔清唔楚,可能性有好多喎!有可能佢諗多咗呢?

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實情是我老公做左一D我唔鐘意的事, 而之後我同佢討論的時候我提出我對婚姻的睇法同埋底線, 之後佢就話呢個世界上, 沒有一段婚姻是會完美無 \wow\
我而家對佢只是充滿懷疑, 而每一次我要飛我都好擔心!


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你又係講得咁 general?佢做咗啲咩事令你唔鍾意先?如果唔係關於女人的...咪由得佢囉!好心你唔好咁執著啦!小心令到你老公對你反感喎!

講唔講得俾大家知係咩事呢?

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even if you quit your job do you think you can make him not do the things you don't like? you can only minimize the chance but still not 100%!

if you're home all the time will you fight over this again and again??? if so, better to go to a marriage counselor to figure it out.

no one can give you proper advice here since you don't want to divulge too much of your personal data and i would not suggest you do otherwise. as with any relationship communication is key. when i say communication, i mean for you to ask without blaming and listen without judgement.... simple to say but hard to do.... pls take care and hope you and your husband will resolve your differences.

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一段關係, 應該建立係信任上面.

如果連互相信任都做唔到, 咁係咪要問下自己, 當初點解要同呢個人結婚?

如果選擇咗佢係你將來o既伴侶, 就應該更加體諒同信任佢...除非係發生咗啲無法原諒既過錯...

兩個人係在乎互相溝通, 信任, 同成長...^____^


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