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Author:  bonbon [ 2007-04-22 1:40 ]
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i been with my ex for 7 yr...like u lots of up n down. last 2 yr, i kept thinking of leaving him...cant see future together...its lik u stuck on a stage n really not going anywhere. this yr i finally stand up n left eventhough life witout him not as comfort as i used to be...i still miss him...but i think a woman need to plan for herself somehow...i knw all kind of passionate love will end up like we were after some yrs but i cant just live with a flatmate forever?i still rem the way he looked the day i moved...i was very moved but too bad my flatmate is not yet ready to settle down n i m getting old n bored of this stage.

Author:  Auntie [ 2007-04-22 11:43 ]
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jsc8i46m wrote:
佢同朋友講自己唔係第一次dump,趺落地拿返躑沙...故意咁講,減少傷害情度????
定想向佢佢朋友威下,,?


妖!次次都俾女友飛...佢又會有幾威啫?佢夠膽死同啲friend咁講...諗住人哋會同情佢咋嘛!佢應該諗下...次次都係女友選擇離開佢,佢係咪一個有問題嘅男人...好過啦!

BingBing,
你離開得啱架!呢啲男人唔要都罷!

Author:  Ah Mui [ 2007-04-22 11:58 ]
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Bing Bing, please take care. You deserve a much better one.

Author:  chowbing [ 2007-04-22 14:06 ]
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Thanks everyone!! I know what you guys r talking about but my heart cannot follow the way I want to. His stepmother called me up wanted to know what really happened. He sent me a message said he is thinking our situation and will be ready to talk to me in about a week time. \weiwei\ His family members talked to him for about 2 days trying to find out waht he is he thinking and also his feeling towards me. I am very lost !!!

Author:  kooleve [ 2007-04-23 3:10 ]
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姨媽,唔知妳仲記唔記得我係邊個呢? 嘻嘻! 我想話多謝妳舊年俾咗好多意見同支持我,我而家已經將佢放低咗。雖然而家仲係單身,不過我覺得而家仲過得好過以前,亦都覺得自己同佢分手分得好啱(因為同佢分手半年後佢已經同咗一個大過佢兩年o既女仔一齊,仲有意於明年結婚添!),而且呢個男人未同我分手就追其他人,之後追唔成又同朋友講話仲鍾意我but唔夾啫,冇耐之後咪又同過第二個,男人有時真係唔係好信得過。不過點都好,只要我自己過得好便覺得滿足了,希望我會遇到一個更好o既人啦!

BingBing,有時覺得冇將來就要放手架喇,我之前個男友都成六年幾都要分手,我諗其實你都應該幾瞭解你個男友個性格,咁多年都係咁都冇計,妳而家掛住佢係咪只係習慣咗同佢一齊? 我諗六年唔係一個短o既時間,但當妳而家o既心態變咗o既時候(我估),妳覺得對佢o既愛係咪足以令妳忍受佢o既缺點? 如果妳揀咗佢就要受晒囉,咁妳自己又會唔會開心呢?

我好同意姨媽o既講法,妳唔試吓離開佢又點會知自己o既選擇係唔係啱呢? 其實當妳覺得要離開佢時,妳已經開始覺得有問題啦,咁不如分開一下先囉,因為我覺得一個男人去到咁o既年紀都係咁唔成熟的話,妳同佢一齊都會好辛苦o者。

我記得以前我睇過一篇文章,喺現今社會裡其實一個單身的女人冇咩大不了,結咗婚而又開心o既亦都會替佢哋開心,最慘就係嫁錯郎,所以妳都不妨理智地好好審視呢段關係,唔好俾一時o既心軟同情感影響咗自己o既判斷呀!

Author:  Auntie [ 2007-04-23 12:44 ]
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姨媽搵番你嘅topic出嚟先! \kiki\ .......原來係你呀!
http://www.yucheecrew.net/phpBB2/viewto ... ht=#137235

依家係咪開心好多呢?所以話呢,呢個世上冇話邊個冇咗邊個唔得嘅!
成日話自己唔可以放低,其實就係自己唔肯放低啫!好開心你依家諗通咗!講真...單身生活又幾好玩架!做咩都冇人管住哂! \teeth\

BingBing,
邊個提出分手都好,多數都因為係冇哂感覺或者有異心...先至會講分手。既然都已經成為事實嘞,點解仲要有所留戀呢?
分手係倆個人嘅事,唔需要向佢屋企人交代,更何況你哋只係拖友又唔係夫妻關係。就算係夫妻關係,都只係向老人家交代下啫!
佢屋企人同佢傾又有咩用?仲要用兩日嚟傾? \bubble\ 四十幾歲男人...係唔會改變架啦!就算變...都只會係三分鐘熱度咋!
佢仲要一星期後先至ready to talk to you?同佢講...你哋冇嘢好傾啦!你都已經決定咗咯!你千其唔好咁容易俾佢啲甜言蜜語感動到喎!男人desperate起上嚟嘅時候...乜肉麻說話都夠膽死講架!
忍痛一排啦!會好快冇事架!

Author:  kooleve [ 2007-04-23 17:57 ]
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姨媽,真係多謝妳呀,我而家真係開心好多,起碼煩少咗另一個人啲嘢(因為佢o既唔成熟,搞到我要擔心埋佢啲嘢,都幾辛苦),好多人而家見到我都話我靚番晒lu...哈哈(因為之前瘦咗太多,樣又殘晒),總之而家單身都可以玩得幾開心架! 另一半搵唔搵都冇所謂,隨緣囉! 好o既先要架嘛!

BingBing,
其實咁大個人都應該要識得自己解決問題,呢啲嘢要同屋企人傾,傾完先決定追番妳? 咁o既話佢係咪真係愛妳呢? 定係佢跟本唔想負成年人o既責任,咁係同佢一齊都係等如湊仔咋喎。

妳記得一定要夠狠心,千祈唔好心軟呀,好似我都痛過一排,而家咪又好好地! 呢個世界真係冇話冇咗邊個唔得架,難得妳而家有諗清諗楚o既機會,妳一定要加油呀!!

Author:  chowbing [ 2007-04-29 17:25 ]
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We finally talked, and we both agree to start all over again. At the moment I am staying at my Mum's. He will stay by himself. We both realised that we had communication problems. \pain\ We both want to talk more in the future.
I hope all of you won't think I am useless. I am not a very strong person.
From now on I will try to express myself to him in a gentle not the hash way like before.

Author:  chowbing [ 2008-06-24 22:07 ]
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chowbing wrote:
Been with my bf 6 yrs we had ups and downs. I dun see any future for us and he never talks about our future. Our relationship is like flatmate. I am thinking of saving $ in these few mths to pay down payment and deposit for a flat for rent. Anyone can give me suggestion what to do? Am I doing the right thing? \wide\ I won't let him know my plan, I will leave quietly, maybe leave he a letter to let him know what I feel. \weiwei\


最終都捱唔住,分咗手喇! 不過我覺得好開心好輕鬆,是個解脫 \happy\

新男朋友對我好好 tim !! \red\

Author:  Auntie [ 2008-06-25 16:59 ]
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你呢個0靚妹!搞咩呢?Waste咗成年時間!

係咪俾你識到第二個 先至飛佢呢? \teeth\ 講個過程嚟聽下! \tongue\

Author:  chowbing [ 2008-06-29 15:30 ]
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No la!! I have been single for a while, then meet my present bf ga!
Well!! finally , I felt that I had enough of this relationship, it's getting no where!!
At least this time I left him without pain, unlike last time.
I dun feel that I wasted 1 year , maybe I won't have meet my bf a year ago! \red\

Author:  Auntie [ 2008-07-01 21:30 ]
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咁就恭喜哂你啦!記得改下啲脾氣喎!啲男人唔話得架!有咩問題...真係要坐低同佢好好地傾架!千其唔好好似阿媽咁成日 "哦" 佢。

Author:  chowbing [ 2008-07-02 18:17 ]
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呢個男朋友對我好好,好錫我,有比較之下原來之前嗰個對我真係麻麻地。

Author:  Auntie [ 2008-07-03 19:01 ]
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啱!有得比較嘅時候,就唔會執著之前果個架啦!

所以真係諗唔通,點解失戀嘅男同女,可以好肯定地覺得冇咗身邊果個....就冇哂人生樂趣?
點解有啲人只不過係暗戀對方、甚至只係同對方有一面之緣,就肯定對方係心目中的另一半?
唉........其實大家只不過係未撞到個更加好嘅啫!

Author:  chowbing [ 2008-09-26 17:56 ]
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經過咗3 個半月......今曰散咗lu...!!又再老土D 講,因了解而分手! 但我好OK 喎,喺我提出嘅! 識耐咗佢,佢嘅真面目出嚟喇,佢係嗰D沽寒人哋,闊佬自已嗰D 人,當然仲有好多其它問題啦! \pain\

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