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 Post subject: 分手.....好嗎?!
PostPosted: 2006-09-23 16:01 
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一星期前終於都下定決心同佢提出分手....係long haul番黎果晚就send左個

msg同佢講我地分手啦~原因係我仲意左第二個....佢冇send番msg or打俾我!

開頭我估佢應該飛完好tired,所以冇reply我~咁我諗咁就最好啦,我都唔想再解釋

啦,因為我都唔愛佢喇!!

後黎點知第二朝佢係咁打電話黎...原來佢班機delay左,岩岩先收到msg,仲on

the way to my home~當我聽佢個電話果陣佢已經到樓下,我為左唔想屋企人

見到佢,就拿拿聲落去同佢去club house到傾!佢仲著緊uniform個樣好似好冇表

情咁....當時我個心沉左一沉,好似好對佢唔住咁!佢話佢唔想我地咁就冇左,又問我

個男仔係邊個,我only講左一句"算啦,邊個都唔緊要啦,我都唔想再cheat你"

佢就話"你貪新鮮想報復姐,咁你做到啦,我依家好hurt~唔好咁對我" 點知講講下

係我喊左....佢hung我,果一刻我心軟喇!佢話不如我地結婚啦....我即刻好感動一

句說話都講唔出!! 過多一陣我知我要清醒下,我就話對唔住叫佢唔好咁,你岩岩番

黎一定好tired,不如番屋企訓先啦,d野遲d先傾~唔知佢tired定點啦,佢對眼紅得

好緊要,佢話今晚一齊食飯,咁我都唔知點好就話是但啦! 佢送完我上完樓就走,我

一番到屋企個心好痛好痛,好gulity....個brain好空白!

其實一路都唔知去唔去dinner好,唔去又好似好mean好唔負責任,話晒都唔想再

咁hurt佢講清楚!點知果晚好suprised,佢竟然買晒花同ring同我求婚,我以為佢

朝早係講下~我同佢講你唔駛咁做,唔好咁傻!佢話佢一早想同我結婚,只不過想過

多一個月我生日先講~最後我話不如大家都冷靜下!

依家佢日日都打電話同send msg黎,我依家個bf又問我分左手未,搞到我都好煩

好亂,好冇心情番工,我port左兩日sick啦,check佢個roster,佢又port sick喎~

果班仲係佢homeport flight,我知佢好難先swap in,真係有d擔心佢!

我覺得自己都唔知點咁,想同佢分手就應該唔好再理佢d野,做得絕d!!一d frds話

長痛不如短痛,有d又話我一定會後悔佢咁好我都唔惜珍惜!

自己問心,佢一路都對我真係好好,兩年幾,都係佢就我多過我就佢,雖然佢都出現過

第三者,但係佢話佢唔仲意個女仔,仲係佢主動話俾我知!所以今次佢覺得我係想報

復,其實只係我對佢變左心~但講極佢都唔肯放手,我自己又真係唔死心得晒,兩個

都愛~

我係一次ultra long haul識到依家個bf,大家做同一個galley好辛苦但係好開心,

好sweet咁,outport一齊好似去渡假咁!之後番到香港冇幾內就一齊左~開頭好

gulity!但一路都諗住見步行步,睇定d先~

但係呢幾個星期黎,我覺得好似一d 都唔愛個ex bf,我去到outport可以一d都唔

會諗起佢掛住佢!係hkg係咁搵籍口避開佢!

但係自從果日後,我就好十五十六,如果佢決絕d俾我走,我個心會好過d!


好亂好亂........


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PostPosted: 2006-09-23 16:50 
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係你篇文章睇得出, 你已唔愛你個ex,
你都決定左分手....就分囉....唔好理人啦, 亦唔駛心軟...等大家都好過D...雖然你ex 一定好hurt, 但都要架啦! 你做"好" 人, 只係令你最後兩個男人都冇哂...
唉.................

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PostPosted: 2006-09-24 2:31 
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SORRY可能直左少少.....
你會唔會下次同第二個人飛......又話對人地有感覺架?
睇得出你有少少唔堅定喎.....!!

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條仔真係慘!!!

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PostPosted: 2006-09-24 20:22 
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你可能真係貪新鮮喎, 飛一次lonng haul就鐘意人地飛左拍左兩年幾果條仔...
難得有人對你咁認真, 你唔好咁對佢啦..

(而家無咩男仔肯結婚架喇.... \tongue\ )


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PostPosted: 2006-09-24 22:40 
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(pls forgive if I am too direct..)You are so changable..yea..just a long flight g ma.. dun forget nowaday still recruiting more ar..maybe u would like someone else soon or later? Well I understand why you dun miss your ex, becoz you have a new one..a fresh one..of coz you enjoy the time very much! however you might regret after sometimes?? you sure this one is better? more suit to u? personality wise lae? well..infact.. your ex is too kind for you.. even he knows u have someone else..still wanna marry you!!! I dunno much abt your relationships.. however.. if you decided to give up the ex,, then you shd be strong!! dun give fake hope to him.. it just hurt him more!!! \sunglass\

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PostPosted: 2006-09-24 23:52 
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我都想有人同我求婚 \cry\

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點解你咁容易就移情別戀架??? 吓??? ....定係你同ex拍拖嗰兩年都係玩玩吓???....話唔愛就唔愛???....你咁忍心???

唉...不過你有權選擇你喜歡嘅路...(我只係戥你個ex傷心啫 \weiwei\ )....希望你無選擇錯啦....

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PostPosted: 2006-09-25 1:18 
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Isn't it very obvious? You have changed la. It's ok to change.. The world changes everyday. However, you need to clear yourself up with you ex before moving to the other party. It is ok to love someone else. By the way, Love can't be measured by time. Your Ex BF may be very implusive to buy ring an flowers. If you don't love him, why marry him wow?? It will create more pain after marriage.

Lady, just choose who you want the most.. Life is short, don't waste time on sb that you don't love.

Have a fresh start.. Take care.


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嘩~你個case同我之前個ex-bf有9成似!!!!!!!
不過角色上就相反, 我係俾人hurt果個...... \cry\

雖然, 我都明白作為提出分手既一方應該要理智同決絕d, 唔可以心軟, 不過作為被人拋棄既一方, 真係會覺得好慘, 好痛......尤其是你係響毫無徵兆既情況下無喇喇同人講分手.....

唉~我又唔係認同你心軟, 不過既已你決定左就真係要絕d......同佢講清楚你地已經完囉.....如果唔係, 俾你拋棄果個人只會愈諗愈多, 佢既痛苦只會更長同更深架咋..........


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thanks for all of u's replies.

actually,untill this moment,I still have feelings on my "ex bf"....I know he's a really good guy.but I just don't know why,in the past few months(before I know my bf),I can't feel any passion toward him.sometime I even need to think about how to deal with him,I will feel so streeful.I dun like him always就晒 me gum,I mean it's good he treats me well,but sometime it's too much. I will feel so annoying when he over-"就”me.how dun know how to describe that feeling,but just dun like dating.it makes me can't love him more.

and now he still keep trying to contact with me,when I see him,I dun really want to break up with him,everything he says.... it just touched my heart.I know I'm mean to him......

honestly,I really dun have much confidence on my new relationship,I think because there are so much problems between me and my"ex",so when there is someone can give me the feeling of sweet ,love or maybe fresh,it just made me totally forget him.
ai....now my feeling is very bad,I feel so sorry for both parties.but I really dun know what to do,struggling.both of them say they would give me little more time,actually I just feel they force me to choose.

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橙皮 wrote:
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(而家無咩男仔肯結婚架喇.... \tongue\ )


我都想有人同我求婚 \cry\


I know it's so sweet and happy someone proposes to you.but I dun want just a moment of happiness and make both parties feel painful and regret for the rest of life.
I really hope to marry someone I love and have a happy future.but I know it's not at this moment I can do it. \weiwei\


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PostPosted: 2006-09-25 13:02 
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then why do u open this topic, asking us to choose for u?? \wide\
我咁睇, 如果有一個人可以令到你變心, 可以唔諗你男朋友一排, 其實你都唔係好愛你男朋友....
over "就" 你就唔好, 第日那個唔" 就" 你, 睇下你又點.... \wide\
一句講哂, 你最愛你自己! \bubble\

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PostPosted: 2006-09-25 13:11 
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I just feeling so bad,want to express it out.
I really dun know what I want......that's why I'm not firm enoguh to deal with my relationships.
yes....you are right, I'm " 你最愛你自己!" \cry\


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