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佢唔可以將愛情放喺最top係因為man天生事業放最top...當事業有成先想愛情你試想想連自己都照顧唔掂自己仲點照顧你...他很愛你便會想到現實的問題...愛情和bread...只可以選一放最top做空服員係唔需要去擔心經濟問題...不過你睇下樓下都知....man因為face問題不可以比你weak..唔通下下出去玩要你比咩...仲有想到結婚後...你係經濟column....他又點會唔擔心呢....."時差"不是問題...面對現實先係一個問題....你不是一個現實的女孩....可以不分開的機會已多50%....其實問題係你自己無自信詐...無勇氣去面對....所以選擇逃避(樓下個d人都係啊...成日都話對愛情失去咗信心...你地咁無自信心...仲學咩人想拍拖啊).... (guns)
比d自信心自己....咁自然無咁易想分開...今時今日做消極派唔work架啦

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係囉﹐唔好咁易放棄呀﹐比心機呀!支持你~ \flower\


多謝你給我的「正能量」呀 (goodd)

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佢唔可以將愛情放喺最top係因為man天生事業放最top...當事業有成先想愛情你試想想連自己都照顧唔掂自己仲點照顧你...他很愛你便會想到現實的問題...愛情和bread...只可以選一放最top做空服員係唔需要去擔心經濟問題...不過你睇下樓下都知....man因為face問題不可以比你weak..唔通下下出去玩要你比咩...仲有想到結婚後...你係經濟column....他又點會唔擔心呢....."時差"不是問題...面對現實先係一個問題....你不是一個現實的女孩....可以不分開的機會已多50%....其實問題係你自己無自信詐...無勇氣去面對....所以選擇逃避(樓下個d人都係啊...成日都話對愛情失去咗信心...你地咁無自信心...仲學咩人想拍拖啊).... (guns)
比d自信心自己....咁自然無咁易想分開...今時今日做消極派唔work架啦


你講得好有道理! 我都明白、認同你所講嘅, 但我唔敢100%肯定佢係你所講嗰種男人, 因為佢朝朝都唔願起身返エ, 日日返エ都遲到, 搞到要撘的士($120), 我成日都勸佢唔好再係咁喇, 佢做office, 番10點已經唔算早啦, 準時返エ真係咁難嗎? 佢答我話:「我知...」仲話唔會再搭的士返工....呢句話我已聽過無限次~ 結果咪又係無改善... 我都唔想再勸佢(搞到我好似亞媽教仔咁)... 咪唯有自己早d起身叫佢起身返エlor (如果我嗰朝唔洗返工)
仲有, 我同佢以前都有食煙, 拍拖1年左右, 佢同我表示, 佢唔太鍾意我食煙, 咁我咪戒 lor, 成功戒掉 (proud) ...佢話佢都會唔食, 但後來俾我發現佢仲有食, 其實我都唔介意人食煙, 但我最憎佢唔坦白, 佢煙癮唔深架, 係佢見到d fren食, 佢又食, 吹水煙...唉! 我都由得佢..
我又唔見得佢係一個咁有責任心嘅男仔, 所以我對呢段關係其實真係無乜信心...但我都好俾心機, 好努力去做好自己, 盡量去包容佢、支持佢、鼓勵佢...

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... 我都唔想再勸佢(搞到我好似亞媽教仔咁)... 咪唯有自己早d起身叫佢起身返エlor (如果我嗰朝唔洗返工)

因為你同佢既年齡有番d差距, 呢樣野其實你都應該預左架啦!

仲有, 我同佢以前都有食煙, 拍拖1年左右, 佢同我表示, 佢唔太鍾意我食煙, 咁我咪戒 lor, 成功戒掉 (proud) ...佢話佢都會唔食, 但後來俾我發現佢仲有食, 其實我都唔介意人食煙, 但我最憎佢唔坦白, 佢煙癮唔深架, 係佢見到d fren食, 佢又食, 吹水煙...唉! 我都由得佢..
我又唔見得佢係一個咁有責任心嘅男仔, 所以我對呢段關係其實真係無乜信心...但我都好俾心機, 好努力去做好自己, 盡量去包容佢、支持佢、鼓勵佢...


最緊要你地係埋一齊既時候唔好有太大既壓力, 責任心呢樣野可以慢慢培養既唶! 而且他重細, 慢慢等佢成長啦!

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諗番轉頭, 初初一齊嘅頭2-3年, 我都好開心架, 覺得好sweet, 佢嘅細心係我從未感受過嘅(之前我都拍過6次拖), 從未試過有人咁温柔對我, 咁體貼, 佢喺音樂上嘅才華亦係我最欣賞. 我屋企人亦無反對 (可能係無眼睇 \covermouth\ )..起初都驚佢玩玩吓(當時佢得十幾歲), 拍咗年幾拖佢先帶我見佢父母(佢地都好nice), 見完佢父母後, 我個心就好似定左d, 覺得佢肯帶我返佢屋企見佢d屋企人, 好似認定咗d嘢...

但時間耐咗, 我就開始擔心, 可能年紀大咗, 擔心嘅野越嚟越多, 開似諗d現實嘅問題...又怕自己老來無依...見身邊嘅女性朋友都嫁得七七八八, 有d仔都生埋, 自己就仲玩緊"拍拖", 一d 都唔plan吓將來..(其實我有plan過, 仲plan得好完美添 \teeth\ ..), 個人開始覺得好煩, 好不安.....我其實都有同佢傾過d現實嘅問題, 我好surprise! 我一向都以為佢唔會諗咁遠嘅嘢, 點知佢諗得仲遠過我 \mouth\ ..但我都仲擔心, 擔心佢會變, 佢e+咁諗啫, 唔知遲d係咪咁諗呢? .....佢又鬼死咁靚仔, 出面好多妹妹仔都"喉"住佢, 我自己開始老, 我怕佢會受唔住誘惑........我越諗越多、越諗越多....... \wow\ \wow\ \wow\ .......救命呀!! \wow\ \wow\ \wow\


Don't Worry! My wife is also elder than me 3 years and my friend as well! I like a mature and elegant ladies! We married 6 years already la! Age is not a big problem for me! If you really love someone .... no matter where he/she come from, background, age, rich/poor ......etc! When fate is come no body can stop you! Be positive! I support you! \happy\


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你講得好有道理! 我都明白、認同你所講嘅, 但我唔敢100%肯定佢係你所講嗰種男人, 因為佢朝朝都唔願起身返エ, 日日返エ都遲到, 搞到要撘的士($120), 我成日都勸佢唔好再係咁喇, 佢做office, 番10點已經唔算早啦, 準時返エ真係咁難嗎? 佢答我話:「我知...」仲話唔會再搭的士返工....呢句話我已聽過無限次~ 結果咪又係無改善... 我都唔想再勸佢(搞到我好似亞媽教仔咁)... 咪唯有自己早d起身叫佢起身返エlor (如果我嗰朝唔洗返工)
仲有, 我同佢以前都有食煙, 拍拖1年左右, 佢同我表示, 佢唔太鍾意我食煙, 咁我咪戒 lor, 成功戒掉 (proud) ...佢話佢都會唔食, 但後來俾我發現佢仲有食, 其實我都唔介意人食煙, 但我最憎佢唔坦白, 佢煙癮唔深架, 係佢見到d fren食, 佢又食, 吹水煙...唉! 我都由得佢..
我又唔見得佢係一個咁有責任心嘅男仔, 所以我對呢段關係其實真係無乜信心...但我都好俾心機, 好努力去做好自己, 盡量去包容佢、支持佢、鼓勵佢...

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似乎他係個d無咩事業心的人.....唔想返工又被迫要返
日日返エ都要撘的士($120)....仲邊到save到金錢...你都算用心良苦
自己早d起身叫佢起身返エ....好似他阿媽咁..... \red\
食煙很多時係心癮.....可以食唔食都得
不過對你說謊又係唔係好對路
既然都開始了...咪堅持下去...睇下有無回報囉....我都支持你架
要愛一個細個自己的人不容易...要很有勇氣.... \wide\

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你講得好有道理! 我都明白、認同你所講嘅, 但我唔敢100%肯定佢係你所講嗰種男人, 因為佢朝朝都唔願起身返エ, 日日返エ都遲到, 搞到要撘的士($120), 我成日都勸佢唔好再係咁喇, 佢做office, 番10點已經唔算早啦, 準時返エ真係咁難嗎? 佢答我話:「我知...」仲話唔會再搭的士返工....呢句話我已聽過無限次~ 結果咪又係無改善... 我都唔想再勸佢(搞到我好似亞媽教仔咁)... 咪唯有自己早d起身叫佢起身返エlor (如果我嗰朝唔洗返工)
仲有, 我同佢以前都有食煙, 拍拖1年左右, 佢同我表示, 佢唔太鍾意我食煙, 咁我咪戒 lor, 成功戒掉 (proud) ...佢話佢都會唔食, 但後來俾我發現佢仲有食, 其實我都唔介意人食煙, 但我最憎佢唔坦白, 佢煙癮唔深架, 係佢見到d fren食, 佢又食, 吹水煙...唉! 我都由得佢..
我又唔見得佢係一個咁有責任心嘅男仔, 所以我對呢段關係其實真係無乜信心...但我都好俾心機, 好努力去做好自己, 盡量去包容佢、支持佢、鼓勵佢...


i am so glad tht you have such love and patience with him. i have a same problem too. i always worry he will leave me soon or llater.
i told him about it too. i am 32 la and he has not reach 30 yet...he says its stupid to think just how we look years from now. saying that eventually even if iam 10 yr younger, i will get old one day. so does he means he has to keep looking for another girl again?
he believe most important is we are happy and loving ....
i don;t know. i hope your love can motivate him la! happy loving.


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你地個個都咁撑我, 我真係好感動...

希望我同佢可以有結果啦...不過...我怕呢個只係奢望......(sorry! 我近排個人又有d灰)

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為什麼近排個人又有d灰?
你驚又結唔到婚?
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我個心而家好似被撕開咁...好痛..好痛...不停咁喊...已經連續喊咗5個鐘...仲未流乾....好辛苦...好辛苦......

咁多位...我失敗了...失敗得好徹底...我死心了...我知呢段日子我會好難捱...我同自己講一定要捱過...捱過咗就一切都會好美好....

今次我知一定番唔到轉頭...(我發現咗佢背住我去叫雞)....我覺得自己好儍....一直都唔肯接受呢個事實....我好傷心...好失望...好絕望....點解?????????????????

我唔可以再面對呢個人....我呢一刻覺得呢3年幾入面, 佢所做既、所講既都好假....點解我咁蠢???????????????????

對唔住! 我知呢道有好多人support我, 關心我....我令你地失望了,sorry! ....我成日都希望有朝一日可以好開心咁喺呢道同大家講, 我們結婚了!!.....但今天2006年10月25日, 我要同大家講, 我們分手了!!

我無法可以令自己願諒佢..我做唔到...做唔到...

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Guy is different from gal, their dick is seperate from the brain, can function seperately. It's quite normal (for me) for a single guy to find hooker...But if he have you already and do that...it must hurt a lot.

Hope you can recover soon

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我今次真係好傷呀...唔知幾時至會好番...就算好番, 傷口亦會好深...

佢嘗試向我解釋, 但我唔想聽...我只想靜吓...但一靜落嚟, 我就不停咁喊...我仲愛佢...但佢今次真係傷得我好深...我有想過願諒佢, 但原來好難, 我知我永遠都唔可以忘記呢件事...佢話會等我...我想, 分開吓會好d...

點解佢要做d咁既野傷害我? 我唔明...

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姨媽, 你又唔好一竹杆打一船人, 唔係個個男仔都係咁諗架, 呢個世界上咁多人係唔係先...哈哈哈哈 得罪晒 : p

橙皮姐, 我都好明白你而家感受, ex同我要分手一刻我足足失眠左個幾2個月, 要去睇醫生先得, 而家先好返少少炸, 我唔係同情你, 而家羨慕佢有個咁愛佢架女仔, 你都過唔到自己果關, 就算原諒左佢都唔會長, 點解唔結束左佢令自己開心返D呢..係唔係先, 你都仲要生活架ma, 有時新開始都係一件好事黎架 : )


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